目前分類:心情故事 (29)
- Nov 17 Thu 2011 05:00
咖啡
- Nov 17 Thu 2011 04:33
留學
我不喜歡跟著一個問甚麼事都避而不談的人 或是背對著你去做一些奇怪事的人相處
昨天我得到一句話讓我倏然起敬 不知不覺得可怕起來 想找一個出口
有時身旁的人不如一個陌生人
想要從家裡的人得到愛很難 那要歸咎自己很傻與一個從來不曾作曾諾 與他發生關係
而天真的結婚
- Jun 30 Wed 2010 20:01
價值
- Jun 05 Sat 2010 22:59
After seeing the movie " Dances with Wolves "
If I saw the movie with my own language subtitle . I thought I could catch more than 90% of the meaning , but it would not help me to learn English . However , I knew how to write afterwards in Chinese , but when I wanted to write something about what I saw and how I felt after watching this film with English . I have totally no idea , and it is very difficult to start and easy to get frustrated .
I could not believe that twenty years have passed since I first saw this movie . I was a senior high school student at that time , and this was one of the first movies I ever saw that won a lot of Oscars. I thought it would be a great movie and incredibly powerful . However I could understand the most of the meaning on this movie due to the teacher's introduction had already been introduced . This masterpiece novel was written by Michael Blake , and this successful film was made by Kevin Costnes .
From the opening scene , I felt Dunbar was brave , affective , intellectual , energetic , and honourable . I wondered why he was a suicidal soldier at that character . Maybe the healthcare was poor , he was unwilling to stay alive with sacrific of principles or honour , so if he had to have his leg amputated , there was nothing better than die in the Civil War . Actually , he did not die , on the contrary , those soldiers' spirit was encouraged by his suicidal riding along the enemy entrenchment . It seemed like a crazy idea and then it all went on unexpected development .
Later on , Dunbar took his post , faithfully performed his duties , awaited his relief , gradually becoming more and more comfortable in his surrounding . Most importantly things , he had a amazing friendships with the Sioux tribe and a wild wolf . Nonetheless , a friendship between an early American soldier and the Sioux tribe had never been done before , so this was a major accomplishment and a major contribution to our knowledge of American cultural history . And on top of that I believed this movie delivered a message about American history better than any book did , and the other thing we should not forget quickly . There was majesty in freedom , and that was taken away from many Indians , not just the Sioux . Native Americans were people , just like us , trying to survive and raising their children in a dangerous and changing world . They only killed when it was necessary : self-defense , protection of their land , beliefs , and so on , they could hate , love laugh and cry . This movie also showed that their societied had bouth good and bad in them , no different than us . When they murdered and scalped the white men and killed and skinned those buffalos , It made me flesh creep .
- Dec 23 Wed 2009 07:24
A greedy women
Once upon a time a God said : This lady is greedy for profit , so I'll make two options for her. A solution plan that gives she the option to live with her husband without her husband's business . On the other hand is keeping her husband's bussiness but the couple need to live seperation . Those options let her hard to make a decision . She loves her husband so much . Why the God picking her ? The greedy women asked : Is there no simple solution to this problem ? The God answered : The final decision is yours till tomorrow , and the God disapeared quickly . It's a difficult decision for any female . While she thought the o'clock kept ticking away . A light began to lighten in her mind , she thought her husband always treats her nice than her family . She doesn't want her husband disappointed and lose his business ......................................................................................................................................................... 《continue》
- Oct 29 Thu 2009 06:07
惜福與感恩
珍惜你身邊的人、事、物,別人對你的好別認為理所當然,感謝你周遭的人、事、物,時時刻刻感激在心,有些關係是需要人去經營的,稍有不慎,一但出現裂痕將無法恢復之前良好的關係。惜福與感恩帶給人們正面的能量,能量之大超乎你我的想像,就連剛呱呱墜地的小娃兒都能感應的到,每日有所思,周遭的人一定幸福。
- Sep 07 Mon 2009 03:01
補償作用
因為最近買了烤麵包機所以每天都可以吃到香噴噴的土司及甜麵包,當然也不完全是給自己吃也會拿來送送朋友,看著朋友那臉上充滿幸福的滋味,自己更為高興。在國外,為了滿足口慾而去麵包店買麵包是一種奢侈,麵包貴的嚇死人,而且會吃上癮,於是每次都不敢買太多,是因為了有預算的限制。但現在不一樣了,為了不讓自己的手揉麵團揉的手太酸,斥資去買烤麵包機,也因此生活的步調也跟著改變了。早上一醒來就可以吃著香噴噴的麵包配上一杯咖啡牛奶,品嚐著人間美味,每天和親愛的一起研究食譜,真是開心。
每天做自己愛做的事一點也不厭倦,稱著麵粉,數著刻度,看著麵團變成兩倍大。切自己愛吃的食材,每天可以用掉幾公斤重的麵粉。我每天都做,家裡有著麵包香殘留的味道,那是幸福的味道,可以做到半夜也要完成,看著麵包漸漸烤成金黃色的表皮,簡直是一件完美的藝術品,內心很開心。我跟親愛的說,大概是補償作用吧,因為買了就有一股去做的衝動,就會想去研究。做麵包的時後,我倆的互動增加了,好像每天在談戀愛一直有說不完的話題,哈!做麵包真開心。
- Aug 27 Thu 2009 11:35
一位父親
在朋友的邀約下參加了她們的旅遊,最特別的地方、印象最深的是一位父親會帶著他的小孩參觀所有的行程,不管是要參觀捐獻或行程額外的付款,他都會站在最前面有耐心的等待孩子去靠近他。因為自己無法做到這種程度所以不禁的好奇多留意那一位父親的舉止。彷彿看到另一面不同的鏡子。一般父母會有一種矛盾的心裡作遂:例如會帶小孩去遊樂園,但會阻礙小孩玩的盡興,不准他們玩這、玩那的,不然又是那個好貴、這個也好貴喔!於是小孩的快樂就被我們給犧牲掉了,他们鼓起勇氣的心靈就被我們無意識的舉動狠狠的給踹一腳。烙印在他們心底是一道無法撫平的傷痛。
我跟這一位父親簡單的聊了一下,問他是如何辦到的,可以出來旅遊不去在乎花多少錢,全心全意的奉獻。他說原因很簡單ㄚ!我自己很多地方也是和小孩第一次去,既然來了要多加錢,也加不了多少錢,但如果因為捨不得一點錢而有一些景點沒去看,或玩的不盡興或遺憾,也對不起自己ㄚ!畢竟同一個觀光地點去遊玩兩遍的也不算有機會的。
一個簡單的想法盡有多少父母想不透,一個簡的答案卻有多少人做不到。我想,包括我在內,『那就是我們做這些父母的,省錢省過火了。常常以【怕花錢的角度】去看事情,卻也用錯地方啦!』希望此則切身體驗與朋友共分享,讓我們快樂,也讓自己的小孩更多的快樂!!
- Aug 20 Thu 2009 10:49
我很想敗家
回到臺灣的時後還沒買一台照相機就匆忙的趕回加拿大,心裡好爭扎喔!原本在好市多看了一台特價的相機砍不下手,到頭來部落格缺一堆的相片未補。慾望一堆,還有一台攪麵團機也在等補位。原因是饅頭做的太好吃了!我來不及消化訂單啦!用手工無法做太多手睕需要休息。沙發擺在展示間已經很久了,還沒派出與四個小孩同等級的部隊去把它搶救回來。不是一張喔!要看好是『部隊』,表示很多張啦!我需要列一張慾望敗家清單,將它分做急與不急;需與不需,待心思沉殿後好好的想一想。我腦子剛浮出一個念頭───【有沒有哪裡有慾望回收站回收我的殘念或是狐群狗黨救濟我吧!達成我的慾望且讓它實現吧】後者我看是比較難實現;前者克制自己不要制造那麼多的混亂應該比較好一點。天晚了,要去做白日夢了。
- Aug 06 Thu 2009 22:34
7/7---8/2 回家了
拜兒子大鬧要回台灣吃小吃的心情感召之下,我們在炎熱酷暑的夏天裡回到可愛的家。在機場出關的土壤中一股撲鼻的霉味一湧而上,手腳的汗水直湧而出有如泉水般,連小兒子也叫苦連天。日子過的飛箭如梭,看著兒子飛奔的往外跑和同學做公關以及吃著懷念的小吃的滿足表情,超感動!
三個星期很短,但由於要在異國安置一個家也不是一個簡單的事,很多事情尚未處理好急忙的又回國,加上計劃趕不上變化老公居然在一個月後又要再做一趟飛機,真是忙碌ㄚ!老公真勤勞居然在短暫的三星期裡也騎了不下於三次的136還攻頂,真的寶刀未老!我咧,汗顏許多一步也沒騎,在潮濕的環境下什麼也不想做。
哈哈!我居然被那個小兒子抱怨懶到爆,回去時午餐都沒煮,我只煮晚餐啦!我也老實的跟兒子說你真是貴人啦,以前我在暑假的時後,的確也只有煮一餐。我也計劃讓你們有時間可以吃懷念的臺灣料理啦!
- Oct 15 Wed 2008 10:34
willowdale park
- Oct 02 Thu 2008 10:27
秋天真善變
- Aug 31 Sun 2008 22:57
嗚!我就路不熟
初到加拿大,因為國際駕照的原因,想趕快入境隨俗,好考到這邊的駕照。老公買了一部新車,所以我們有要外出辦事情的時後,他都會讓我開車,好熟悉這邊的路況或多或少練一下開車技術,但惡夢也開始了。除了男生女生的身體架構不同外,連開車時的作風也完全的不同。他怪我開車前不先查閱地圖,叫我左轉我右轉,其實如果他事先在前一個路口跟我說那條街要轉的話,任誰也都可以反應過來不是嗎?
但或許沒有經驗,所以他都會在路口前馬上說要左轉或右轉,吼!先生你也幫幫忙,十字路口前禁止切換道,你沒有查清交通規則喔!,我來不急切換他要轉的線道了,與他背馳,大家可想而知接下來夫妻間會發生什麼事了,每個人因為做事的作風不同,反應也是多少會有些許差異,此時的我,想起課堂上說的,男生女生想法是有差的,的確。不過經過幾次的溝通後,默契比較好了,但我還是想跟他說的是,嗚!這裡的路不熟,好難記喔,走錯路或許可以找到其它的捷近喔!放心吧!我會把你安全的載回家的。
- Jul 16 Wed 2008 21:51
車子打包好了
平時星期三晚上都會參加捷安特夜騎的活動,今天不能參加有些無聊,當我們正忙著打算明天去借車再載回來的時後,索性他弟幫我們把車載回來了,真要謝謝他。因為我們要移民所以理髮店說她一下子失去三個客戶,因為要移民老師失去兩個可愛的學生,市場的菜販肉攤說少了一個好客戶,頓時之前生活中平時會接觸的人、事、物都會隨之改變,可愛的水果攤阿姨,路旁叫賣的老伯,對你們有點不捨,只因為生活中多了一些人情味,這可能是台灣的奇景,加拿大可能就沒有這些存在的生活趣味,還有先前因為要賣車而到市場叫賣,更要感謝來看車的人,原來市場對於一個熟悉的人可以說得動請他們來看車,真有趣,市場真的很可愛它佔了我生活的一部,無聊時可以跟阿伯阿姨们寒喧,一個星期不見會彼此關心。想起上星期答應朋友出國後會拍很多照片給他們看,我想應該可以藉以擺脫思鄉之情吧!